Mark, this site is bad for your mental health. I really encourage you to reconsider whether it’s wise for you to come here. I will not ban you, but I really think you should find other, perhaps less interactive, ways to spend your time.
You are trying to destroy your wife and previous females you have been in relationships with. You are trying to destroy any female now.
Your eww gross comment some females would make of you exposed your turd or caught you engaging in homosexual activity tells a lot about the way to you think.
People kept defending you here because you kept manipulating them. People need to recognize what that manipulation is really about.
You have to allow healing . Just because you can’t get any better doesn’t mean others can’t.
You ego is fragile. You have a weak constitution.
Gotta destroy you. You keep trying to make it seem like I’m the one whose soft and so easily torn up an damaged. Your gut testifies the truth. Maybe you should give up sex,
Depends what you understand under „traditional“ gender roles at home. If that just means, a guy wants a partner who doesn’t work but stays at home to take care of the household and the family - or only him in case they are childless - and in exchange shares his income half with her and both have equal say on every matter, then I agree.
But I doubt you suddenly respect your wife as an equal partner. Applying violence or even murdering a woman because of her gender is just the most extreme form of misogynism.
Gunda you have to understand his agenda. He went out to try and brag he stole Harold’s gf and then drove her out of the United States into Islam. That’s his victory against American Christianity.
Now he keeps making his wife feel she is not arousing him enough or satisfying him. Because she isn’t a 140 pound young male . Can you imagine how she must feel when he is thinking of that and day dreaming and saying those things?
He keeps trying to feminize me and speak to me as if he is talking to his wife. He is so mixed up and confused he doesn’t know which direction to face when speaking.
He is going to try and destroy his wife’s mental health and self esteem in proportion to his sexual. dysfunction and lack of presence and realism. The guy freezes and glitches. He’s a gay man in a relationship with females just like Diddy.
He wants to hurt women the most the most he can as a gay. And any male that might have had the slightest attraction to those women. He wants to fill the hurt void with gay.
It’s too big a void.
I see. To demand from men to share their income with their partners if they want them to stay at home to take care of their hubbies/family, equals to hating men. 
That’s the thinking of a misogynist who needs to control his wifey by keeping the financial power and who demands to have the last word. A boy. It certainly isn‘t a man who needs to control his wife and the society to pay for the wifey in case she dares to leave such an exploitive relationship.
He’s a narcissist. He decided to be one to reinvent himself. Will is gone and I don’t owe him any history to define myself or justify my existence. Reggie on the other hand still resonates and echoes with his tone. That’s because of the radio and Reggie has a throat chakra problem that’s just a little too disgusting.
Same with Pastor Marty. Very insulting. Reggie is a narcissist yet is seen as a victim by bigger narcissists. Ones that scare Reggie and the mere mention of them.
He only gets pleasure by making others feel disgusting and inadequate. The best way to do that is with his body. Because those are the feelings that come with a body like his. That’s not good.
How do you think he responds when a female asks if he can try lovemaking without his prosthetic? Throws a fit they didn’t appreciate his moves and dance? How little he actually does. Most likely he immediately tells them they are overweight.
The guy thinks too much of himself.
He wants to tell himself he was true to himself all the time from the very beginning to the very end . That God never showed up for him.
Why do you think he keeps insisting to me I should be 140 pounds and how I live misery. Like I can’t even get out of the couch and bed when actually I’m hitting the gym about 6 days a week sometimes?
Because cori was bodybuilder. He weighed more and felt bigger. He thinks he can apply that now to anyone. Good luck with that.
Why is making me feel like USA is the wrong country? Because he bragged about Ferni sleeping in his bed.
Why are you talking to me like I am a female?
He wants to see the extent his wife will go to or other females here because he doesn’t feel they meet his weight criteria.
It’s said the narcissist will never expect the extent they will go to prove happiness exists outside of his world.
Of course he tries this with me.
This guy has so much discarded female sensuality as a life resource he could easily change himself as a transexual and be totally content.
Don’t you see why you have a feminist backstop against him? He’s gay and a void. He is representing female salvation.
I just found this on Reddit. I totally understand her. She reacted absolutely ok, actually she was way too mild for my taste.
If the hubby wants the wifey to stay at home for taking care of him or the family but refuses to share the financial risk, hence to share his income (I don‘t speak of inheritance or assets etc., but solely the monthly income), then I would want to see his dumb face if their partner consequently would do the same and reduce their contribution, hence the work/care. Cause that’s exactly what those men do. Aside from that it’s simply disrespectful to say the least, to not consider the partner as equal.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1fkl27i/aitah_i_stopped_wearingusing_what_my_husband_gave/
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I am 100% on her side, too.
If you support that the income is shared in case one partner stays at home, then why did you react so negatively prior?
Gunda, you demand of others that they arrange their finances exactly as you specify. I reject that. I do not consult with you about how I arrange my finances, and I doubt anyone else does, either. As a general rule, should the money in the household shared between the partners? Sure, if that’s how they choose to arrange things. If the partners choose to arrange things differently, that’s their business and I’m not going to impose my will or opinion on them.
In this case, the man asked the woman not to work because he made enough for both, and then he started using money as a way to insult her. They did arrange their finances so that the money was shared, and then he reneged. “That’s my money” etc. Disgraceful behaviour.
That is simply not true. There are different constellations and couples should be able to decide which financial model they use for their individual situation within a certain legal frame the state offers.
But like with every decision or opinion made regardless on which topic, I - like everybody else - has the right to have an opinion as well.
It’s neither fair nor respectful to say the least (and politely), if a guy at the one side expects his partner to go full in into the relationship („…in good and in bad times“), yet doesn’t want to do the same (hence not sharing the monthly income despite the partner stays at home and bears the main financial risk - as well as the society in case this relationship fails). Additionally also wanting to have the last word in decisions, makes it even worse. In summary, this relationship is based on exploitation.
Last night I watched a talk show where also this woman was a guest. A energy ball (ADHS, like her father, who wonderfully supported and encouraged her to learn all kind of stuff. She flew a plane before she got the car license and made any possible licence you can imagine. Worked as a bushpilot in Africa and had many other jobs, as she always expected the jobs as described in the childrens book „Benjamin Blümchen“, lol. Anyway, she also is very funny and kind. Found a wonderful partner and husband, got two children (boys who also got ADHS), and fulfilled her childhood dream of having plenty of farm animals without having to live on their costs. They offer vacation for families with severely handicapped children.
To stay on topic, she said one great sentence about her relationship. In essence, a good way to enter and keep a relationship is, if both agree to help each other to fulfill each partners dreams. And so they did. And to this I full heartedly agree. That’s a relationship worth to give ones life for. Their relationship is based on equality. Not exploitation.
Agreed.
Agreed. Have and express your opinion.
Agreed. It is legal, but it is neither fair not respectful.
The only place we might differ is in what form that sharing takes place. Let’s say there’s a couple, a man and a woman. The woman is very responsible and makes a lot of money. The man is not responsible, can’t handle money well, and has no discipline. The woman shares her income by paying for everything, but she knows if she gives the man cash, he will waste it. To me, that woman is entirely right to keep her money away from the man, but she shares by simply paying the bills, and leaving him in her will in case she dies first.
In that extreme case (regardless the gender), I totally agree as well.
Thats abuse. I totally agree. He is an irresponsible control freak who doesn’t respect her as an equal. He exploits her. If the law then additionally doesnt protect her but treats her just as her hubby did, she ends up on welfare in case they separate. Thats why it should be mandatory law, that both in a marriage have the legal right on half of their monthly income.
