I don’t worry about you. I mourn you every fuckin day.
Mourn me in the mornin’
mourn me in the evenin’
mourn me at suppertime,
Be my little darlin’ and mourn me all the time.
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You made one step forward. My respect for that you acknowledge your mistake back then. And yes, for sure you are more attractive and younger as well as desperate than I am. That‘s exactly the reason why 50, 60, 70 year old sacks go to poor countries to have sex with way too young women. And that’s why I said Reggie is in the wrong position to criticize those guys, as he isn’t any better. Additionally he defended them years ago when I criticized Germans going to Thailand for the very same reason. So, thanks for proving my point. It wasn‘t Reggie being a gentleman or kind hearted when dragging you away from your parents in your desperate condition. It was his minor league paedophilia fantasy and his big ego. Nothing else.
https://discourse.bbad.com/t/age-is-just-a-number-and-prison-is-just-a-place/648/89?u=gundi
Of course it‘s right for people to marry. I just don‘t see a reason for one person being the slave in that relationship. It’s not natural and also not healthy in my opinion. In my experience, women look for protection in their partner. Not a master. Your posts about doing everything to get your daughter the same educational chance and material gifts as your son as well as doing what you like to do, rather supports that approach too. That‘s why I wonder, where your acceptance for your subordinant instead of equal role stems from.
As a child, I was brainwashed into believing there was a God and that His Word was Truth. He convinced me I needed protection so I cleaved unto the man I married. (Weird, I know)I tried to break free from his bondage but he gave me such peace that I didn’t try very hard to get away and over time I adjusted to a life of servitude. Pray for me, Gunda. It’s a slaves life and no woman should have to endure it.
Sorry, I didn’t mean “pray”. That would be pointless, right. 
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That‘s why I wonder, where your acceptance for your subordinant instead of equal role stems from.
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It stems from not having a paying job. The only thing I had no say in was things that had the potential to effect us financially. Because I don’t manage money well. I do spend it better than most, if I’m truthful. I had to fight about sending Charli to OU because it was so expensive (250,000 over 5 years) when I could have sent her to a cheaper college. She’s graduating with her masters in 2 weeks in Arizona. And we just found out she’s going to have a baby, 3 weeks after her honeymoon. That will make 10 grand babies for us.
I don’t consider it a mistake at all. It was a wonderful experience. It didn’t last forever but nothing does. Now it’s a wonderful memory.
By the way, it’s nice to see you in all out bunny boil mode lately. Your intense jealousy of Ferni has been on full display. As she noted, music and TV aside, you can’t seem to go 5 posts without mentioning her. Feel free to write a few thousand words denying it. Tell us how you blame me, not her. It won’t matter. She sees through it and so do I. It’s good you don’t live near her. This level of obsession can easily lead to violence.
https://discourse.bbad.com/t/age-is-just-a-number-and-prison-is-just-a-place/648/106?u=gundi
Again, protection is not the same as serving/obeying. But I get that both can be indoctrinated by religion/tradition/culture. That‘s why I was asking if you know where you think it stems from.
https://discourse.bbad.com/t/age-is-just-a-number-and-prison-is-just-a-place/648/107?u=gundi
No problem, but yes indeed.
https://discourse.bbad.com/t/age-is-just-a-number-and-prison-is-just-a-place/648/109?u=gundi
Ferni at least acknowledges her mistake. That you don‘t see anything wrong with dragging her away from her parents in her desperate condition speaks volume about your irresponsible and miserable character. But calling others minor league pedos who do the same. 
And no, I never was jealous of Ferni. She was a victim of your manipulations just as I was. Darryl told me the lies you told her about me, I first didn‘t believe him and needed to see it with my own eyes. Which I did. Darryl opened my eyes about you, for which I am very thankful. I can‘t help if Ferni or anyone else here buys your lies. But your lies about me certainly made me regret having saved your ass with my money. So keep on lying and be the double standard asshole you are. You know you have to.
IT wasnt a mistake, at all
I dont remember Reg talking about you Gunda, sorry
Reg, we are far too old for this Gunda issue.
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Who’s Darryl?
https://discourse.bbad.com/t/age-is-just-a-number-and-prison-is-just-a-place/648/108?u=gundi
Sorry, I missed that post of yours.
Wow - congrats to your daughter getting her masters AND a baby, lol! That‘s wonderful!
Yes, I see it often that in a relationship, where she doesn’t has a good paid job, he has the last word regarding spending. I still think that‘s not fair, as both doing (no matter if done at home or at a job) contributes equally to the family‘s wellbeing and the financial decision of one person effects the other person just as much. Therefor I think it was a great achievement of you to successfully fought for an excellent college education for your daughter. Very well done!
Sure, I give you that. I was irresponsable and inmature, maybe the lack of intelligence is a point too.
Usually, admitting having done something irresponsible and immature means, it was a mistake.
You weren‘t meeting Darryl with Reg at a restaurant/pub? That‘s what he told me and there it was were Reg places the first lies about me. Thanks to Darryl I found out about his foul play.
She was ok for awhile and then you dropped by and her insane jealousy resurfaced.
Does Vesna have kids yet?
You better check the meaning of „klug“. Then you wouldn’t use it to describe a desperate, pregnant girl flying to a way older man she doesn’t know to stay with him.
Wrong again. Ferni wasn‘t here at all when I saw your post where you labeled those old Western losers moving to Columbia to be able to keep young women as their whores. I was just pointing out that you aren‘t in a position to critizice them for exploiting those young women for their minor league paedophile fantasies, as the same very fantasies made you to drag Ferni in an irresponsible way from her parents. I have seen Ferni posting only after Julie came back.
True, but you only brought the bunny to full boil after she came.
I didn‘t tell lies. That‘s your job and you excel at it, Reggie. So if there‘s someone boiling a bunny, then it‘s you.
Ferni, you don‘t know it better. That‘s a weak excuse, but it‘s ok. I don‘t expect more.