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How clever, Nico. I must have cut deep with that last remark. :slight_smile:

But no, it has been many years since I have had any need for debt.

lol guess it could if i didnt view everyone as equal

nice to hear, guess it can really help when you have a wife to take care of you

True! And I take care of her. It works well. One might say it is the way the human race was designed. I still hold out hope that Gunda my marry you one day, Nico.

thats honestly great to hear

one might indeed (wrongly) say that if one was indoctrinated to think so, just like hoping is futile (but its nice to see you make a typing mistake)

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Don’t be shy, Nico. Ask her out for coffee.

~Cupid Reg

lol that’s too cute but even coffee would be a challenge. I mean, what if Nico’s culture teaches that if he asks her out for coffee, he pays? She’s never going to go for coffee if he can’t respect her need to pay her way.

I doubt Nico has any qualms about letting women pay.

That’s a separate issue. What if Gunda won’t pay for him?

as fun as it would be to invite her out to drink turkish coffee and surround her with muslims and see the reaction on her face, i dont like that sweet stuff myself and am also not interested in meeting her :wink:

surely all americans think everyone in the netherlands go dutch?

if i invite anyone, i would never let them pay for anything

see above

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Ruhig Brauner! Funny you think I would accept going on a date with you. It’s not just that we hardly ever agree but your opinions often are insane.

PS: I like turkish/arab food except for the halal meat (but I also don’t eat kosher meat) and their sweets as it usually is too sweet for my taste. But alone your intention speaks volume about your sick mind-set.

Interesting. I never had a dispute about payment on a date.

What makes you think the man should pay for the first date (assumed both are working fulltime)? If you have a date with someone you met on a dating platform, then the first goal for both is to have a date with someone you think could match. So, as long as one person doesn’t have a significant longer way to travel and hence more costs to get to the restaurant/cafe, then it wouldn’t be fair if one has to pay all. It’s polite and a very normal thing to do in Germany.

If I meet someone on the “road” (meaning at the bar, cafe etc.) or through a friend and he says something like “Do you want some coffee - I would like to invite you?”, then I would let him pay of course.

i do not think nor want that

not my intention, reg suggested me to do something, i replied

I don’t blame you. I saw her feet.

I don’t blame you. He has demonstrated complete carelessness. From such, stay away.

Are you always so obedient to your elders or was it just for selfish kicks and giggles?

Well, you assumed it in your answer to Reggie.

Oh, then it was Reggie’s idea you shall invite me to some Turkish restaurant. I see. :wink:

interesting, where did i demonstrate that?

i never obey to anyone, i always do what i want or what i think is right

My feet are super cute!

no, i definitely did not do that

of course not, i didnt even mention a “turkish restaurant”

Where you stated you might have children somewhere.