besides trying to make up for it by helping others instead of taking the cowardly way out…
Your brain has been slow-baked, Nico. Pay attention. I stated at the beginning of the story that they were in a love/hate relationship. Do you know what that is? Have you ever had one if those. They are intense and unless you e ever experienced that kind of relationship, you don’t really know what you would g doo but thanks for your expert advice.
I believe he wanted to make it work out and he probably would have done anything to convince himself it could work if he just stayed with it and given her time to grow because I believe he cared deeply for her. He just hated the things she said when she got drunk.
Awww, you’ve never experienced deep and painful guilt either. How do you offer so much expert advice with so little experience.
yes
you are very welcome!
correct, if you always do what you think is right and if you mess up you try to make up for things, you never have to experience such guilt
oh that comes naturally… kinda like how you.naturally can justify inhumane behaviour because of some achy breaky heart…
You’re are completely brain-dead. I’m not justifying anything. I introduced a true to life event but instead of trying to understand their thinking and what pushed them to do all the things they did to each other, all you can do is condemn their thought process and divert the debate to your own love/hate relationship with Jesus.
I fully agree with you, Michele. I guess you don‘t need to have experienced such a situation by yourself but simply the fact that suchs killings and sometimes also suicides by the killer isn‘t that rare.
PS: This is btw. also another reason for a rigid ban of fire arms. It’s not as easy to kill someone with a knife.
when someone uses words like “the only way”, or “no other option” when there are always many options…what is it if not justification for the actions that happened?
lol i have been there with those thoughts and did a lot of bad stuff so i think i understand it a little already,
i sympathize with all humans and do not condemn their thought process or anyone; i condemn (what i see as) inhumane actions
so i offered some more humane options…
i have no love or hate for your jesus since i do not believe your jesus ever existed (outside the delusional minds of religious people)
Sometimes I really seriously wonder if you ever leave your monitor and socialize in the real world, Nico. I honestly don‘t say this to provoke or even to insult you. Really not. But your positions on so many social things are so strange to use a rather kind word.
Does even one person you personally know agree with you on this or that free speech interpretation of yours?
why? lol and what is this real world you are talking about?
thats ok lol unlike many people i do not believe words can insult or hurt anyone, its the interpretation of an individual that hurts themself
yes, quite a few after they talk to me a bit more and think about it
what is so strange about speaking your mind? if you dont think its weird, then why shouldnt others do the same?
what is so strange about not accepting violence as an option when there are so many better options always available?
This was long and boring and I think you’re all crazy so I didn’t read it carefully, but I would just like to comment that I wouldn’t prosecute most women who kill an abusing spouse. Call it justifiable homicide in the public interest, and help them to put their lives back together.
a license to kill for drugged up women that feel bullied by their drugged up husbands… insane needles barbaric behaviour but not surprising its justified by a religious nut and a german feminist?
still an interesting suggestion coming from you lol
Langsam Brauner, I didn‘t justify any cold-blooded killing of an abusive partner, regardless the gender. That‘s what divorce and prison is for.
lol did you just call me a wigger?
Jesus Christ, no, lol. It‘s an expression german riders say when their horse is too excited, too nervous or too fast (hence the word „langsam“. Also common is to say „ruhig“). But it can also be used for people being in a similar state.
The word „Brauner“ is used for a certain colour of a horse (bay horse), but stands here as a synonym for „horse“.
PS: I find attributes for liking different cultural stuff stupid anyway. The one which uses them to label others is the actual racist. This was a general note. Just to be clear here, I don‘t believe you think in such categories.
Criminals do not acknowledge gun bans during criminal activity. Are you suggesting a person prepare for a gun battle by sharpening a knife?
It’s theorizing.
Maybe you have, maybe you haven’t, idk, but you talk in circles and you dance around every subject as if you can’t explain why you know these things and I’m too old for a teen-talk.
Good! I hope you can offer more than that or I’m going to go away disappointed.
That guy you knew was a criminal? I speak of couples, not criminals per se, but in which household is a legally brained gun and eventually gets used by one of them in the heat of a quarrel.
lol ok thanks for the explanation, so you called me a horse and tried to order me around…
uhm i dont think so; if you would be theorizing wouldnt you consider many different options instead of limiting yourself to only 1?
i dont care if you believe me or not since you have shown you cannot be trusted with any personal information and the only “proof” you believe in is your bible nonsense…
dont worry, i will offer them any time i see anyone claim there is only 1 inhumane option
Yes, but that German idiom isn‘t meant to insult but to calm someone down who - like in your case - jumped way too far by claiming I would support the killing of an abuser in cold blood. In self-defence I don‘t mind at all but would applaud in support. This being said, not every case is the same. If both behave stupid and abusive, then I might not support such a killing generally. I would have to know more details.