# Favorite Music Videos **URL:** \ **Category:** Good Times Cafe\ **Created:** [May 27, 2018, 6:22am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22 "2018-05-27T06:22:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 163
**Author:** ![thinkingaboutit](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/t/ce73a5/32.png) [@thinkingaboutit](https://bbad.com/u/thinkingaboutit)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:20am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3265 "2025-02-03T10:20:25Z")
> [@Reg](#): > > Imagine if you could extend your life by 100 years by accepting that your consciousness will be transferred into a metal robot. Would you take the deal? Sure you get to live 100 years longer, and perhaps forever, but you are no longer you, at least not as you remembered yourself, and you find the new form ugly. Repulsive, even. That’s the choice Germans face. yes, its an easy choice since iam my consciousness not whatever houses me > [@Reg](#): > > If I were German, I would choose to live and then try like hell to make the new Germany look as good as it can look, while accepting that it will look nothing like it once did. I’m not German, though, and I have no vote. I understand those who choose to hold on to their memories until they can’t anymore, and then die. everything changes… there is no use holding on or trying to keep things the same or get back to what was, one can only try to guide it a bit… when it concerns the ddr or east germany and its ideas and values (thats where most of the afd voters reside) i think its a very good thing to let that die out quickly ---
**Author:** ![Reg](https://bbad.com/user_avatar/bbad.com/reg/32/6053_2.png) [@Reg](https://bbad.com/u/Reg)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:28am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3266 "2025-02-03T10:28:39Z")
> [@thinkingaboutit](#): > > yes, its an easy choice since iam my consciousness not whatever houses me I respect that choice, but I believe most would choose differently. Another feminist anthem from a married woman with a child, who dresses modestly and doesn’t promote a slut lifestyle for women. Let’s always remember: men have never, ever, ever asked women to dress like sluts in public. Only feminists have asked for that. [![]( " - YouTube") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TC_U6HBwSvw) ---
**Author:** ![thinkingaboutit](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/t/ce73a5/32.png) [@thinkingaboutit](https://bbad.com/u/thinkingaboutit)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:35am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3267 "2025-02-03T10:35:23Z")
> [@Reg](#): > > I respect that choice, but I believe most would choose differently. i highly doubt that > [@Reg](#): > > Another feminist anthem lol thats just a sappy emo song > [@Reg](#): > > Let’s always remember: men have never, ever, ever asked women to dress like sluts in public. Only feminists have asked for that. nonsense, lots of men (and women) ask for that every day ---
**Author:** ![Reg](https://bbad.com/user_avatar/bbad.com/reg/32/6053_2.png) [@Reg](https://bbad.com/u/Reg)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:37am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3268 "2025-02-03T10:37:34Z")
No man I know wants a slut. Most feminists I know defend being a slut. ---
**Author:** ![thinkingaboutit](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/t/ce73a5/32.png) [@thinkingaboutit](https://bbad.com/u/thinkingaboutit)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:38am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3269 "2025-02-03T10:38:14Z")
> [@Reg](#): > > No man I know wants a slut. Most feminists I know defend being a slut. lol not even in bed? ---
**Author:** ![Gundi](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/g/45deac/32.png) [@Gundi](https://bbad.com/u/Gundi)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 8:59pm UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3270 "2025-02-03T20:59:48Z")
Madness. The world turns upside down. A man, who refuses the idea to share his income equally with his wife who stays at home for taking care of the family, is not a feminist but a misogynist. A man who views his wife as subordinate is not a feminist but again, a misogynist. You want to control women, Reggie. And your claim regarding porn etc., blaming alone feminism once again, is just another proof for your ignorance. Anyway. Here’s a nice theme song of a filmed childrens book by the probably most famous childrens book author - well, before Harry Potter was written, lol. [![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/ZXSu_IjzhV8/hqdefault.jpg "Astrid Lindgren - Mio Min Mio") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXSu_IjzhV8) ---
**Author:** ![Reg](https://bbad.com/user_avatar/bbad.com/reg/32/6053_2.png) [@Reg](https://bbad.com/u/Reg)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:14pm UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3271 "2025-02-03T22:14:16Z")
> [@Gundi](#): > > A man, who refuses the idea to share his income equally with his wife You know nothing about what I’ve done for my wife financially, Gunda. I am quite sure she would not agree with your uninformed speculation on this matter. > [@Gundi](#): > > And your claim regarding porn etc., blaming alone feminism once again, is just another proof for your ignorance. You have said this now twice. It is nonsense. Here are some simple facts: - Porn was illegal before feminism. People who made porn (either as actors or producers) were thrown in jail before feminism. Porn is now legal because of feminism. - Prostitution was illegal before feminism. People who engaged in prostitution (buyer or seller) were thrown in jail before feminism. Prostitution is now legal because of feminism. - Feminism legitimizes sexual promiscuity, especially for women although it takes two to tango. That was the whole purpose of the feminist sexual revolution. Women were now allowed to have multiple sexual partners without guilt. - Feminism legitimizes life without family. Feminists are the most anti-family people on Earth. You may make different personal choices, but most feminists go on at length about how they don’t need men or children for fulfillment. - Feminists love and promote porn. Look at the feminist anthem I just posted. She appears naked with her legs spread several times. I find her disgusting and hideous covered in tattoos but that’s irrelevant here. This video would’ve been considered soft core porn not long ago. - Feminists advocate for the free breakup of families at a moment’s notice on the woman’s whim. They say it should be easy to divorce and walk away with half the family’s assets because, well, they feel like it. Yes, many women have very good reasons to divorce, but feminism advocates for the idea that they need no reason at all. Feminism is the most anti-family doctrine in existence. - Without feminism, prostitution and porn would swiftly be made illegal again in most jurisdictions. Almost everyone agrees with that, except feminists. Even infidelity might be made illegal again, as it should be, despite the protests of the Dutch. These are simple facts, Gunda, whether you accept them or not. ---
**Author:** ![Reg](https://bbad.com/user_avatar/bbad.com/reg/32/6053_2.png) [@Reg](https://bbad.com/u/Reg)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:24pm UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3272 "2025-02-03T22:24:35Z")
From ChatGPT: > Pro-porn feminists, particularly those aligned with sex-positive feminism, played a significant role in shaping the discourse around pornography and sexual liberation. Emerging in the late 20th century as a reaction against radical feminist critiques of pornography, this movement argued that sexual expression, including the consumption and production of porn, could be a tool of empowerment rather than oppression. Thinkers like Camille Paglia and Susie Bright defended pornography as a medium through which women could reclaim their own sexuality, challenge puritanical norms, and explore desire on their own terms. They opposed censorship, arguing that suppressing porn was inherently conservative and reinforced patriarchal control over women’s bodies. Instead, they advocated for ethical and inclusive representations of sexuality, leading to the development of feminist pornography, which prioritizes consent, fair labor practices, and depictions of female pleasure beyond the male gaze. > > The broader influence of feminism on the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 1970s was profound, as second-wave feminists helped dismantle restrictive social norms around female sexuality. Figures like Betty Friedan, who wrote _The Feminine Mystique_, challenged the idea that a woman’s role was solely within the domestic sphere, while other feminists pushed for birth control access, abortion rights, and sexual autonomy. The feminist movement helped normalize discussions of female pleasure, agency, and sexual diversity, which in turn contributed to a cultural shift that made pornography more socially acceptable. This era saw the decline of strict obscenity laws, the mainstreaming of erotic material, and the rise of a more open and diverse sexual culture. Even as debates over pornography’s impact on women continued within feminism, the movement undeniably played a role in expanding sexual freedoms and reshaping attitudes toward erotic media. ---
**Author:** ![Gundi](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/g/45deac/32.png) [@Gundi](https://bbad.com/u/Gundi)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:28pm UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3273 "2025-02-03T22:28:18Z")
> [@Reg](#): > > > [@Gundi](#): > > > > A man, who refuses the idea to share his income equally with his wife > > You know nothing about what I’ve done for my wife financially, Gunda. I am quite sure she would not agree with your uninformed speculation on this matter. For Gods sake, then answer for men in general instead of using your wife and privacy as an excuse. So, if men want their wife to stay at home to take care of him, the children and/or elder family members (and presumed of course the wife agrees), do you oppose the equal share of income/assets gained from that day on? Do you view your wife as subordinant to you? Do you always have the last say in making decisions? If you answer any of these three questions with a „Yes“, then you aren’t a feminist. Regarding your claims about feminism is (alone) responsible for that porn is legal and every other of your claims. I want to see sources, not just a mere reference to a ChatGPT. Porn and prostitution exist since ancient times. Feminism exists about a 100 years. And not all feminists are pro porn and/or pro prostitution. I bet also „a few“ men cast their vote in that matter. ---
**Author:** ![Reg](https://bbad.com/user_avatar/bbad.com/reg/32/6053_2.png) [@Reg](https://bbad.com/u/Reg)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:44pm UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3274 "2025-02-03T22:44:55Z")
> [@Gundi](#): > > If you answer any of these three questions with a „Yes“, then you aren’t a feminist. Gunda, you don’t own the word feminism, nor do you get to decide whether others may consider themselves feminists. You may set whatever criteria you choose for your use of that word, and you may even say “I don’t consider you a feminist”, but you don’t get to choose for me what a feminist is. Here is a girl who considers herself a feminist speaking out against other feminists who insist that if you don’t support porn, you are not a feminist. [https://boards.scarleteen.com/viewtopic.php?t=4649](https://boards.scarleteen.com/viewtopic.php?t=4649) Those women (that the author is complaining about) say that you’re clearly not a feminist because you don’t support porn. Their opinion has no more (or less) importance than yours. The truth is that they can define feminism for themselves and consider you a non-feminist. You can define feminism for yourself and consider me a non-feminist. And I can define feminism for myself and consider you, Nico and the pro-porn people all to be non-feminists. To me, you are all advocating against the interests of women and are, therefore, non-feminists. I am the only feminist here. 🙂 > [@Gundi](#): > > Regarding your claims about feminism is (alone) responsible for that porn is legal and every other of your claims. I want to see sources ChatGPT clearly cited the feminists involved, the historical events and the social influences at play. If you want links about those, go Google them yourself. I am not trying to convince you of anything or sell you anything. I am merely stating my (obviously correct) position. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gundi](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/g/45deac/32.png) [@Gundi](https://bbad.com/u/Gundi)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:55pm UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3275 "2025-02-03T22:55:32Z")
Reggie, I wrote this already so often. Feminists, just like in any other group, have one goal but different opinions how to achieve them. I asked you three questions. Answer them and then look up the Wikipedias definition of feminism. Tell me how you manage to justify your answers with the goal feminism wants to achieve. Definition of feminism according to Wikipedia (excerpt): Feminism is a range of socio-political movements and ideologies that aim to define and establish the political, economic, personal, and social [equality of the sexes]. ([Gender equality - Wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_equality)). ---
**Author:** ![Reg](https://bbad.com/user_avatar/bbad.com/reg/32/6053_2.png) [@Reg](https://bbad.com/u/Reg)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 10:58pm UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3276 "2025-02-03T22:58:48Z")
> [@Gundi](#): > > Feminists, just like in any other group, have one goal but different opinions how to achieve them. No, Gunda, this is not just wrong, it is simpleminded nonsense. Feminists are a diverse group of millions, many of whom have _ **different** _ goals. They do not all have the same goal with different ideas on how to achieve it. Your goal is to promote the traditional family and you seek financial incentives and restructuring to achieve that. Surely even you can see that millions of feminists absolutely reject the traditional family and seek sexual liberation and freedom with no traditional family structure. Your goal is to ban porn and prostitution. Surely even you can see that millions of feminists love and promote both porn and prostitution. It is total nonsense to say that all feminists share the same goals and only differ on how to achieve them. ---
**Author:** ![Gundi](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/g/45deac/32.png) [@Gundi](https://bbad.com/u/Gundi)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 11:09pm UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3277 "2025-02-03T23:09:28Z")
No, that‘s not correct, Reggie. The goal is to have more children. For this I think it’s necessary (among other things), to strengthen the traditional family. So far feminism isn‘t yet involved. Feminism steps in when we want to define the details of the roles and rights of those men and women. So, we can share the same goal, but differ if you demand that women rather stay at home to take care of the kids, elderly, hubby, but aren‘t entitled to half of the income/assets of the breadwinner from that day on. Or if women are viewed as subordinant. Or if women don‘t have equal say. And yes, feminism has one goal. Look up the definition of feminism. Feminists differ in how that goal can be achieved. Just like every other group differs in how to achieve their common goal. > **[Definition of FEMINISM](https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/feminism#:~:text=fem%C2%B7%E2%80%8Bi%C2%B7%E2%80%8Bnism,of%20women's%20rights%20and%20interests)** > > belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes expressed especially through organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests… See the full definition ---
**Author:** ![Reg](https://bbad.com/user_avatar/bbad.com/reg/32/6053_2.png) [@Reg](https://bbad.com/u/Reg)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 11:10pm UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3278 "2025-02-03T23:10:43Z")
Why are you quoting yourself and then telling me I’m not correct? ---
**Author:** ![Gundi](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/g/45deac/32.png) [@Gundi](https://bbad.com/u/Gundi)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2025, 11:12pm UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3279 "2025-02-03T23:12:52Z")
Ah sorry, lol. I deleted that quote. ---
**Author:** ![Gundi](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/g/45deac/32.png) [@Gundi](https://bbad.com/u/Gundi)\ **Post date:** [February 5, 2025, 7:05am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3281 "2025-02-05T07:05:05Z")
Barely anyone knows this band. I stumbled about them shortly before I traveled to New Zealand with my backpack and they accompanied me throughout both islands via public transport, as I couldn‘t afford to rent a car. With a car that vacation would have been even more gorgeous. Still love this song. Rest In peace, Allan. [![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/paKmwO1KCNE/hqdefault.jpg "Semi-charmed Life (lyrics) - Third Eye Blind") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=paKmwO1KCNE) ---
**Author:** ![Gundi](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/g/45deac/32.png) [@Gundi](https://bbad.com/u/Gundi)\ **Post date:** [February 5, 2025, 7:18am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3282 "2025-02-05T07:18:18Z")
And this was the other one on the track which I love. Fat drum sound keeps you going. [![]( " - YouTube") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOmZ1ct5JY0) ---
**Author:** ![Reg](https://bbad.com/user_avatar/bbad.com/reg/32/6053_2.png) [@Reg](https://bbad.com/u/Reg)\ **Post date:** [February 5, 2025, 7:49am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3283 "2025-02-05T07:49:22Z")
Not sure if you realize this but… > **“Semi-Charmed Life”** by **Third Eye Blind** is a song that has a very upbeat and catchy melody, but its lyrics describe dark and explicit themes, including **drug use, sex, and hedonistic excess**. The contrast between the happy-sounding music and the darker lyrical content is intentional. > > ### **Sexual Content in the Lyrics** > > The song contains numerous references to **sexual experiences and desires** , often mixed with drug use (particularly **crystal meth** ). Some of the sexual content includes: > > 1. **“Doing crystal meth will lift you up until you break”** > > 2. **“She comes round and she goes down on me”** > > 3. **“The four right chords can make me cry”** > > 4. **“I want something else to get me through this semi-charmed kind of life”** > > ### **Overall Meaning** > > The song describes a **rollercoaster lifestyle** of drug-fueled pleasure, including **casual sex** , **addiction** , and the fleeting nature of happiness. While it sounds fun and celebratory on the surface, the lyrics tell a darker story of **self-destruction and loss**. ---
**Author:** ![Gundi](https://bbad.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/g/45deac/32.png) [@Gundi](https://bbad.com/u/Gundi)\ **Post date:** [February 5, 2025, 7:52am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3284 "2025-02-05T07:52:24Z")
Oh Reggie, I knew that. The reason why I went alone to NZ was pretty similar, if also not drug-related. Therefore it pretty much fit. ---
**Author:** ![Reg](https://bbad.com/user_avatar/bbad.com/reg/32/6053_2.png) [@Reg](https://bbad.com/u/Reg)\ **Post date:** [February 5, 2025, 7:57am UTC](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22/3285 "2025-02-05T07:57:48Z")
You should try Tekashi Six Nine if you like songs about drugs and sex. I find his song Kooda quite catchy, although I still think his music should be banned and he should be put to death for the greater good. I don’t care about his free speech. [Previous page](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22.md?page=162) [Next page](https://bbad.com/t/favorite-music-videos/22.md?page=164)